Toi et Moi Engagement Ring: The Celebrities’ Favorite Trend

Discover the charm of Toi et Moi engagement rings and find the perfect piece to celebrate your love story.

1. Introduction

Toi et Moi rings symbolize connection and unity. Featuring two stones side by side, they represent love, partnership, and commitment. This design dates back to Napoleon Bonaparte’s engagement to Josephine and remains a timeless favorite.

Today, celebrities like Ariana Grande and Kylie Jenner have reignited its popularity. Whether for engagements, anniversaries, or meaningful gifts, Toi et Moi rings offer a deeply personal and stylish touch.

2. What Does "Toi et Moi" Mean?

"Toi et Moi" translates to "you and me" in French, making these rings a perfect symbol of love and unity. The two-stone design represents two individuals standing together in harmony.

The Toi et Moi Aurum pear solitaire moissanite ring

But these rings aren’t just engagement ring types—you can wear a Toi et Moi ring as a bold and beautiful statement piece, perfect for special occasions or everyday elegance.

3. What Does a Toi et Moi Ring Look Like?

A Toi et Moi ring features two center stones on a single band, allowing endless customization with different diamond colors, cuts, and meaningful gemstones. The stones can tell a love story, commemorate milestones, or hold deep sentimental value.

The cushion-cut and pear-cut diamond ring with a split-shank band

They don’t have to match—some designs incorporate family heirlooms, birthstones, or contrasting gemstones for a striking effect. Whether traditional or modern, these rings blend style with profound meaning.

4. Why Are Toi et Moi Rings So Popular?

Toi et Moi rings have surged in popularity, especially among celebrities like Ariana Grande, Emily Ratajkowski, Megan Fox, and Kylie Jenner.

Their appeal lies in their versatility and customization, allowing unique combinations of stones, settings, and personal significance.

The bezel emerald cut and pear cut Toi et Moi engagement ring

Jewelers now offer designs that mix diamond shapes, use vibrant gemstones, or feature symbolic motifs like hearts and floral patterns. The second stone enhances brilliance and depth, making these rings an ideal choice for those who want a distinctive engagement ring or a meaningful statement piece.

4.1. Kylie Jenner

Kylie Jenner showcased her and daughter Stormi’s matching Toi et Moi rings, a gift from Travis Scott. Jenner’s ring, worn on her pointer finger, and Stormi’s, on her ring finger, feature a pear-cut diamond beside an emerald-cut diamond. This timeless pairing highlights the Toi et Moi style’s enduring appeal in luxury jewelry.

Kylie Jenner and daughter Stormi show off matching Toi et Moi diamond rings

4.2. Emily Ratajkowski

Supermodel Emily Ratajkowski revived the Toi et Moi trend in 2018 with her custom engagement ring. Designed with her husband, Sebastian Bear-McClard, it pairs a 2-carat princess-cut diamond with a 3-carat pear-shaped diamond. This striking combination brought renewed attention to the style.

Emily Ratajkowski's engagement ring

4.3. Ariana Grande

In December 2020, pop star Ariana Grande embraced the Toi et Moi resurgence with her engagement ring from Dalton Gomez.

Her design features an oval-shaped diamond and a pearl passed down from her grandfather. Despite pearls being delicate, the sentimental value made this an unforgettable piece.

Ariana Grande's ring is a stunning rendition of the Toi et Moi setting

4.4. Megan Fox

Machine Gun Kelly proposed to Megan Fox in January 2022 with a unique Toi et Moi ring. It features their birthstones—an icy pear-cut diamond and a rich bluish-green pear emerald—forming an asymmetrical “obscure heart.” 

Megan Fox's engagement ring

Magnets hidden in the gold allow the ring to be worn as one or separated into two.

4.5. Solange Knowles

Music video director Alan Ferguson proposed to Solange Knowles with an Art Deco-inspired Toi et Moi ring. A prong-set square-cut diamond sits beside an emerald-cut diamond, with a slight gap between them, creating a bold geometric effect.

Solange Knowles's engagement ring

5. What to Consider When Choosing a Toi et Moi Ring

5.1. Design and Aesthetic

Toi et Moi rings range from minimalist to statement styles, each showcasing two main stones. The key is balance—stones should complement each other in cut, clarity, and size while creating a visually striking contrast or harmony.

5.2. Choosing the Right Gemstones

Gemstones add meaning to your ring. Birthstones or gems tied to milestones personalize the piece, while durability is crucial.

Diamonds and sapphires suit everyday wear, whereas pearls and opals require delicate care.

5.3. Balance and Proportion

Achieving symmetry—or intentional asymmetry—defines the ring’s character. Identically sized stones create harmony, while mixed cuts like pear and emerald enhance visual intrigue.

5.4. Setting and Metal Selection

The right setting secures and highlights your gemstones. Prong, bezel, or tension settings influence durability and aesthetic. Metal choices—platinum, yellow gold, or rose gold—should complement both stones and your personal style.

6. Most Popular Shape Combinations for Toi et Moi Rings

6.1. Round and Oval

A timeless duo, round and oval stones offer balance and a soft, romantic appeal, making them a favorite among modern and vintage designs.

Round and oval cut Toi et Moi engagement ring

6.2. Pear and Marquise

This elongated combination enhances the ring’s presence, creating a fluid, dynamic effect that accentuates finger length and elegance.

Pear and marquise cut Toi et Moi engagement ring

6.3. Emerald and Pear

Merging structure with softness, this pairing contrasts the emerald cut’s clean lines with the pear’s delicate curves for a sophisticated yet graceful look.

Emerald and pear cut Toi et Moi engagement ring

6.4. Heart and Pearl

Symbolizing deep romance, this pairing blends passion with elegance. The heart cut’s bold shape contrasts beautifully with the pearl’s softness.

Heart and pearl cut Toi et Moi engagement ring

6.5. Cushion and Pear

A celebration of unity, this design pairs a cushion-cut moissanite with a pear-cut counterpart, representing two souls coming together in harmony.

The bezel cushion and pear-cut Toi et Moi engagement ring

7. Conclusion

Toi et Moi rings, beloved by celebrities, embody love, unity, and individuality. Each gemstone pairing tells a unique love story. At KNT Jewelry, we ethically source and sustainably craft every piece—ensuring your love shines with purpose.